A switch is someone who participates in BDSM activities sometimes as a top and other times as a bottom or (in the case of dominance and submission) sometimes as a dominant and other times as a submissive. This is sometimes referred to as being versatile.
Musings of a Switch attempts to be a body positive journal of my life adventures for discovering and exploring the switch in me.
Online, my name is William Wallace, occasionally I go by that name when meeting new people for the first time. In the real world, I go by my legal name. Very few people know that I go by two different names, only those who cross between this world and the real world. I am many things, a man, a husband, a father, an engineer, an ethical non-monogamist, and a wannabe blogger.
My wife, otherwise known as Missus Sub, and I opened a new door in February 2015 to discover non-monogamy and all that encompasses it. Initially it started as something to do together, but has evolved into something that we didn’t expect. Is it impossible to close, probably not, but certainly very difficult if we wanted.
Here at Musings of a Switch, you can expect to read my thoughts and feeling emanating from my sex brain from all sides of the switch spectrum. There may be rants from the dominant, the submissive, the engineer or the father and husband here. There are no aspirations to be a full-time writer, although a few dollars to keep the domains and hosting active is another story.
This is MY SPACE to share my thoughts with the void called the internet.
IF you want to share your thoughts or ask a question, please drop me a line via Twitter @givinglessfucks or email via email@example.com.
Last updated: March 25, 2022