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The Basilisk

22.09.2023 by William Leave a Comment

Neither of Missus Sub nor I have had the opportunity to purchase a new sex toy for a number of years. We were recently given the opportunity to review a product from the Laphwing catalogue of toys, so we were greatly honoured to try something new.

The catalogue of Laphwing is broad and varied, from traditional penile shaped dildos and vibrators, to fantasy and animal dildos. Our collection to date has generally been the traditional shaped toys, so we took the opportunity to try out a fantasy shaped dildo.

Our toy of choice for this review is the Basilisk Volcanic Rock 8.1″ Fantasy Dildo.

Material & Texture

The Laphwing website states that the Basilisk is made from premium silicone. It is firm when compressed in my hand, yet flexible when twisted and bent.

This feeling makes for what we believe is a well performing dildo. It stretches our vagina and arse, while still conforming to our insides without putting undue pressure in the wrong places.

The surface texture of the Basilisk allows for easy insertion through the gradual changes in overall size, but has enough texture to feel the smaller lumps when inserted.

Mounting

How does one use a dildo? There are a couple of ways: 1) held in your hand, thrusting yourself, 2) a partner holds it, and thrusts it for you, 3) a partner uses it with a harness, or 4) mounted to a flat surface, wall, mirror or floor using a suction cup.

The suction cup on the Basilisk is strong, and holds the dildos weight comfortably in any position we have tried it. Definitely love a dildo with a suction cup for some solo play in the shower.

Lube compatibility

Our preferred lubricant of choice are natural juices, Missus Sub is quite the juice maker.

However in the event that natural juices are not enough, we always go for a premium water based lubricant. Not only does it work well for us, but it also makes cleaning up at the end of a fun session that much easier.

We don’t dare use silicone based lubricants. We have had bad experiences in the past, and while we can test on a small area, we generally don’t run that risk with our toys.

Use water based lubricants only.

Cleaning

Because of the heavy texturing, as well as nooks and crannies, cleaning the Basilisk can be challenging, however a soft brush can help, but we haven’t had any problems with cleaning. A good toy cleaner, or simply soap and water and left to dry before putting away should result in a long lasting toy.

Overall thoughts

If you are looking for your first fantasy or animal dildo, the Basilisk Volcanic Rock is a great option. It is small enough and can start your journey, but also is varied enough for a variety of play, oral, vaginal and anal. The texture is suitable for a variety of sensations.

Would I purchase another, I sure would, and definitely open to trying other animal dildos from the Laphwing Sex Toys store.

Filed Under: Featured, Thoughts Tagged With: dildo, kinks, masturbation, wanking

An upcoming adventure

05.07.2023 by William Leave a Comment

It has been some time since I have written anything here on the blog about any sexual adventures or feelings. Mainly because not many adventures have been had.

I took a break from seeking any additional polyamorous partners for a few months. I find it exhausting to continue looking without having much luck.

However, it seems that things may be turning around in the near future, particularly when it comes to some bedroom action.

Cartoon image of a couple on a bed, the woman pegging the man on his back
Pegging by Girl on the Net

Well, I have met someone online, we are very much into each other and looking for something similar. Unfortunately they live in a different state to me, and only get to my home town every 6 to 8 weeks.

We have high expectations at the moment that we will meet in the coming weeks. At the moment it will be dinner or drinks & hopefully some fooling around in the bedroom. As is the case, online fun & thoughts sometimes don’t pan out the way you hope in person.

I’m trying not to get my hopes up too much. I have a habit of getting my hopes up, and then very disappointed when it does not work out as expected.

I have to catch myself before I let it go too far. I can almost feel it rising too far at the moment even though it is still a few weeks away & their travel plans are not locked in yet.

So those are my current sexual adventures for the moment, I hope they all work out for our sake. I will report back once more details are known.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: bisexual, non-monogamy

Masturbation thoughts

13.05.2023 by William

What do you think about when you masturbate?

Cartoon image of a man lying on his back. He is wearing a butt plug with a blue jewel. There is a cock ring around his cock and balls. He has his cock in one hand, and is dripping lubricant onto his exposed cock head with his other hand.
Cocktails and cock-stroking by Girl on the Net

This is not a question that comes to mind often. Most of the time the thoughts passing through my mind during masturbation are whatever turns me on in that moment. I have not noticed a trend of thoughts where one of them sticks out more than any others.

Most recently, my thoughts have been drawn to transwomen. The idea of sucking on their girl cock/clit really gets my thoughts flowing, and often leads me to stroking my cock until it is hard and ready to ejaculate my warm, sticky cum.

Previously I have been drawn towards women who have undergone significant weight loss and have excess skin with texture, particularly around their waist and fupa. Not really sure where those thoughts originated.

Other times it is when I am feeling submissive. Times when I want a woman to take charge of my orgasms and control them, even controlling my boy pussy. Have her peg me, even with fantasy dildos.

My mind wanders to any number of things when it comes to masturbation. They are generally drawn to my thoughts of the month and what is currently turning me on, and driving my sexual desires.

I wonder where my masturbation thoughts will lead me next.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: masturbation, penis, wanking

Moving forward

02.04.2023 by William

Life for the last six or so months has been a series of ups and downs. There were many high points, and many low points that followed the highs. I met new people online, a few of those I met in person, and some of those have decided to go their own way.

What I have learned from these six months is that what I am looking for in a person probably does not exist. The idea of finding a person who is:

  • looking for in person DDlg dynamic
  • open to exploring with a relatively inexperienced Daddy
  • polyamorous
  • flexible around life situations

Trying to find the quadrella within the Sydney basin seems relatively difficult. Six months of exploring has not found someone who is willing to go the distance beyond talking online.

So where to now?

It seem that the person I am looking for is a unicorn, I think I need to accept one of three things:

  1. I become more flexible in the criteria I am looking for
  2. I stop looking for the unicorn
  3. I find a new kink to explore with poly people

I don’t feel my criteria can be any more flexible without damaging my existing family. I would essentially need to have my own play space that I have access to 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and that basically means not having a family. Alternatively I stop looking for the unicorn.

Given one of them is far easier to achieve than the other, I think I really need to pick the option where I stop looking. I cannot continue looking for a needle in a haystack, especially if this needle does not appear to exist.

So from today, this switch will stop looking for the unicorn, and start learning to accept what I have been given. If the opportunity arises I might explore it, however I’m not too sure that it will arrive.

I think it might be time to farewell this chapter of Daddy Dom and put it behind me, confining it to the history of this blog. Maybe a new chapter will open in the future, but for now I think this chapter is closed.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: daddy dom little girl, kinks, non-monogamy

Favourite sexual position

10.03.2023 by William

What is your favourite sexual position, and why?

Cartoon image of a couple on a  bed, the woman pegging the man on his back
Pegging by Girl on the Net

The number of sexual positions is astronomical. Are we just considering heteronormative positions? Gay and lesbian compatible positions? What about positions that are suitable for transgender persons?

Well for me, one position that I really enjoy, and do not participate in often enough is being on my hands and knees, my shoulders close to the bed, with a dominant woman behind me, wearing a strap on dildo, and the dildo deep inside my ass.

As much as I call myself a switch, there are certain submissive acts that I am drawn to mentally and physically. Pegging is one of them.

While I do enjoy being dominant on occasion, taking charge of another persons orgasms, I also appreciate someone taking charge of mine. Submitting to a woman, being fucked in my ass just tickles my sexual desires as needed.

So any position where I can be fucked in the ass is my favourite sexual position.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: anal, submissive

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