Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

Blog Prompts

Socks

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On their own, socks don’t come front and centre to my mind as being related to kink. I do know that many people enjoy wearing socks, especially longer ones, and some even associate it with little girls as part of their Daddy Dom, little girl dynamics.

I generally keep socks for wearing with footwear, and keeping my toes warm in winter on the cold floors. The vast majority of my socks are sports socks as they are my go to, but I have others for work related footwear and activities. Kink related to sock wearing is not part of my playbook.

However, there is something that just turns me on seeing a woman wearing long socks, just in underwear and a large t-shirt over the top. I think it plays right into my DDlg kink. Not sure what it is though, but it floats my boat.

Could I pull off photos of myself wearing some long, brightly coloured socks, wearing nothing but my new Prince Albert piercing? I certainly don’t think so even with a dose of self esteem directly into the brain.

Bind ~ Blind ~ Tease

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Select a kink

You’re a first-time visitor to a dungeon, and you are ‘centre stage’ because a sizeable crowd has gathered to watch you:

  1. Writhing from bare-hand spanking
  2. Restrained on an X-cross receiving a whipping
  3. Dangling in air wrapped in an ornate web of rope
  4. Naked on a floor mat with 3 people pleasuring you

Being the masochist that I can be, any of 1, 2 or 3 can my preferred choice, but being somewhat of a pain slut, a bare-handed spanking is what I truly want right now.

Write a 50-word story using bind, blind & tease

You kneel on the bed as I bind your hands behind your back. I reach over and grab a blindfold to make sure that you are blind to what is coming as I tease your body in anticipation of your body taking my cock deep inside you. I wrap the blindfold around your head, and help lean you forward resting on your knees and shoulders waiting for me to tease your cunt from behind.

Sex doll play

I could honestly swap between being the doll or being the doll-master. This would entirely depend on my switch mood for the day.

The idea of being the doll-master means I would get to have my way with the doll. Use the doll as my pain slut for spankings and canings, before having my way with the doll, filling her with loads of my cum.

On the other hand, to give up control of my body, and have a woman or man use me for their unadulterated pleasure. To be the fuck toy for them, to be the cum dump for them, to be their fuck doll.

Love and money

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Could you fall in love with and set up home with someone who has $100,000 (usd) in debt?

Money is always a contentious issue when it comes to relationships. Starting a relationship with significantly different levels of debt could cause issues, unless the debt is warranted, for example a HECS debt here in Australia for higher education is something that is paid off through taxation, so not really a huge burden versus say $100,000 of credit card debt with massive interest rates.

However, could I fall in love with and setup a home, for the right person I probably could, but they would need to fill a lot of my kink shoes.

Is it important for you to be the breadwinner or make more money than your significant other?

Do I want to earn more than my wife? No. I want my wife to earn as much as she is capable and comfortable as long as she enjoys what she does, and we are living within our means.

Are you happy with your chosen career path? What could be better?

What I do as a career is fine, the problem that I have is the office politics and all that goes along with it. I love learning new skills and knowledge about the career I have chosen. The only thing that could make it better would be removing the office politics that go along with it, (and deadlines of course).

Would you start a business with your significant other? Why or why not?

I have no interest in starting a business from the ground up. I don’t have the drive to setup the foundations of a business, let alone starting a business of some sort with my wife.

Bonus: Can money buy you love?

No. It makes some aspects of life easier, which may allow me time to explore my relationship with my wife. But money cannot buy love directly.