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BDSM Test

02.02.2023 by William Leave a Comment

Since it is a new year, I have decided to give the BDSM Test another crack for 2023. I want to see how much I have evolved over time.

Looking at the results quickly, being a switch still remains number 1 on my list. There have been some slight movements up and down the list, but I think overall the list is relatively steady.

I definitely agree with the switch rating, as I swing both ways. I’ll come back in a few months and see what happens.

BDSM ARCHETYPERATING
Switch100%
Non-monogamist90%
Brat90%
Experimentalist86%
Masochist85%
Daddy/Mommy85%
Dominant79%
Sadist76%
Submissive76%
Brat tamer74%
Ageplayer73%
Boy/girl73%
Rigger68%
Voyeur61%
Vanilla53%
Primal (Hunter)41%
Primal (Prey)34%
Master/Mistress31%
Rope bunny31%
Owner23%
Degrader14%
Exhibitionist11%
Slave9%
Pet3%
Degradee3%

Here’s to the next time I do the test and see how I have evolved further.

Filed Under: Kinks Tagged With: big, daddy dom little girl, little, masochism, non-monogamy, switch

Spankee

28.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

Hello everyone, I am new to the S/M scene and I have an interest in being on the receiving end of a spanking. As I am new, what is in my mind may be very different from what my body may be able to handle.

So I am looking for someone who is willing to guide me, to show me the ropes so to speak, and let me explore my threshold for spanking & impact play, and potentially even pushing my boundaries (under consent obviously).

I’m unable to host, but would be willing to explore other options (yours, hotel, outdoors, etc).

Please hit me up if this is something you might be open to exploring with a BHM.

Filed Under: Musings Tagged With: impact play, submissive

Embarrassing sex

27.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

Is there anything about sex that embarrasses you, causes shame or fear, or makes you nervous? Or…what’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you during sex?

There are two questions here, and I’m going to answer the second one. What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened during sex?

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

We the most embarrassing thing for me was one particular morning, Missus Sub and I had the bed alone together in the morning the kids were still in bed sleeping, so we took the opportunity for some X-rated time together, something that is precious when you have children.

So we were busy like rabbits together, I was on top, Missus Sub has her legs over my shoulders, and my cock was deep inside her. We were in a rhythm together, my balls slapping against Missus Sub, and the orgasm was building deep inside me.

Just as I was about to fill Missus Sub with my seed, we heard the bedroom door open, and our son came clambering up the bed and onto my back. He hopped on and with a look of shock on my face, I stopped mid-stroke. Missus Sub and I just looked at each other, and started laughing, I rolled off Missus Sub, grabbed our son so I didn’t squash him, then just laughed at what had happened.

While it wasn’t embarrassing to others, I certainly found it embarrassing and funny at the same time.

Filed Under: Featured, Thoughts

What makes a good profile?

23.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

Pinboard with blank notes
Photo by Immo Wegmann on Unsplash

I shared my current personals profile post that I have been using for the last couple of weeks over on Fetlife and Reddit. I don’t want this blog to become my seeking place, but I want to share to get some crowd improvements that may help.

So I am always thinking about things to add (or remove) that might help my posts stand out from the general crowd and find that special person to explore with.

So I would love for some of my readers to have a read of what I currently use, and share some thoughts about a number of different aspects for it:

  • What makes you choose to ignore the post altogether?
  • What interests you to read it in full and not respond?
  • What stirs something inside to cause you to send a message?

So I would love your thoughts, you can share them publicly below as a comment, or you can share them privately using my Contact form.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: daddy dom little girl

eLust 157

18.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

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Welcome to Elust 157.

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Please subscribe to email updates to receive two emails per month from Elust. A reminder once a month on the 1st send in submissions and a copy of the latest edition of Elust on the 15th of every month.

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