Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

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Public displays of affection

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How do you feel about PDA? (You can take this as far as “kinks in public,” too.)

In my opinion the PDA can be taken too far both in a vanilla and kink relationships. The line where you cross is different for all people, however for me it comes down to perception.

In a vanilla relationship, holding hands, a quick kiss, a deep embracing hug are all acceptable displays of affection in public. Visibly showing yourself reaching up a skirt, down a top, or inside a pair of pants is a step too far for me.

If it is something you would do in front of your parents or grandparents, then that is acceptable for me.

When it comes to kinks, it is a very similar line, however if the tasks can be completed in a vanilla setting without it being obvious to a non-kinky person, then that is an acceptable PDA for me.

I personally have worn chastity cages out in public not on show for all. Missus sub has worn rope harnesses under her clothing, and people were none the wiser. As long as what you are doing does not expose non-consenting people to your kinks, then that is fine with me.

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Public sex

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Have you ever had sex in a public place?

Well who hasn’t, but then how many times would depend on what you consider a public place.

The first place I ever had public sex was with Missus Sub, we went and hid in the bushes of one of the local parks, Missus Sub climbed right on top, and rode my cock there and then until I came inside her. This was back in our pre-marriage days.

Does sex in the back seat of a car count as public sex? If so, there were many times with Missus Sub that we hoped in the back seat of the car, somewhere dark at night, even during the day sometimes. There were work cars, family cars, and even once in a friends car. They were fun times.

Also we were once caught doing it on a hotel balcony. While not exactly in a public place, we could be seen from a public place. I’m going to count balcony sex as sex in a public place.

So yes, I have had a number of sex adventures in public places.

Like to find out more about what makes me tick? Read more of my 30 Dirty Questions.