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What makes a good profile?

23.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

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I shared my current personals profile post that I have been using for the last couple of weeks over on Fetlife and Reddit. I don’t want this blog to become my seeking place, but I want to share to get some crowd improvements that may help.

So I am always thinking about things to add (or remove) that might help my posts stand out from the general crowd and find that special person to explore with.

So I would love for some of my readers to have a read of what I currently use, and share some thoughts about a number of different aspects for it:

  • What makes you choose to ignore the post altogether?
  • What interests you to read it in full and not respond?
  • What stirs something inside to cause you to send a message?

So I would love your thoughts, you can share them publicly below as a comment, or you can share them privately using my Contact form.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: daddy dom little girl

eLust 157

18.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

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Aussie Daddy seeking his special little

12.01.2023 by William

Hello Littles, middles and caregivers

My name is William. I am from Sydney, Australia, and I am looking for someone to be my special little. I have lots of love to share with you and much to teach you as my little.

I am:

  • kind, caring, sensual and affectionate
  • assertive and dominant as we explore our shared kinks together
  • open minded as I listen and learn about you, your wants, needs, and everything your heart desires.

I want the two of us to have a great time whenever we are together (as well as apart), and to share dinner dates, movie nights, dancing, cuddles, kisses and so much more.

I would like my little to:

  • be nerdy, geeky and/or artistic
  • have hobbies outside of Cgl
  • have some bratty tendencies, but also know when Daddy mean business

I do not mind a little who is into pacifiers and bottles/sippy cups, and she can also be into wearing diapers if she wants. I have some sadist tendencies, so if you have a touch of masochism, we will get along quite nicely.

I would like our relationship to be ongoing and not just a “satisfy me now” type arrangement. I want to see you grow over time, and help you become a better version of yourself. I want to hear what interests you most about exploring a long term cgl or a D/s dynamic. Please share with me a little about yourself, what you like to do and your kinks.

In a perfect world, I would like a little girl who lives near me so we can meet in person, however I’m also open to long distance relationships.

I am polyamorous, and my partner is fully aware of my search to find my special person.

P.S. If you are only looking for a ONS, or intend to ghost me, please do not message me.

Filed Under: Featured Tagged With: daddy dom little girl, non-monogamy

Farewell TMI Tuesday

11.01.2023 by William Leave a Comment

I was a little shocked when I logged on to Twitter yesterday to see a tweet from Mrs Jones that TMI Tuesday was no more.

I just hopped on to TMI Tuesday as I have done almost every week for almost as long as I have been blogging to discover that there will be no new posts. I am not sure how to feel about it. 1/2

— MrsJonesMT (@MrsJonesMT50) January 10, 2023

I have not been a part of the TMI Tuesday community for long, maybe a dozen or so posts over the last 6 months. So seeing such a long running weekly prompt disappear is a shock to the system.

So I wish Hedone the best of luck going forward.

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: tmi-tuesday

Switch

04.01.2023 by William 2 Comments

Are you more dominant or submissive (or a bit of both)?

I’m surprised that of the 30 questions, I didn’t answer this as the very first one. I guess that’s the problem with being at the bottom of the list.

Well given the title of this blog, Musings of a Switch, I am very much a switch, so I lean both dominant and submissive depending on a number of factors.

Photo by elnaz asadi on Unsplash

I am certain that I am a switch through and through. I have submissive days, and I have dominant days. I am also submissive to people with dominant personalities, and vice versa.

However beyond submissive and dominant days with people of the corresponding personality. There are longer periods of time as well that I feel either submissive or dominant.

At the moment, I am going through a dominant period. My interests currently lie in Caregiver/Little as a nurturing Daddy Dom, and the top role in a number of kinks where I have an interest.

I am unable to immediately switch between the two, mostly it is a gradual process, or evolution of feelings that flows between the two states. Or it comes from a feeling that emerges when I wake up in the morning. There are some days where the two co-exist and I have some submissive traits mixed in with dominant traits.

As for answering the question above, I am both a submissive and a dominant, however at the moment I am leaning more towards the dominant part of the spectrum. Although If I came across a dominant woman who I found attractive, I would become submissive leaning for them.

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: daddy dom little girl, dominant, january jumpstart 2023, kinks, submissive

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