Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

William

An upcoming adventure

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It has been some time since I have written anything here on the blog about any sexual adventures or feelings. Mainly because not many adventures have been had.

I took a break from seeking any additional polyamorous partners for a few months. I find it exhausting to continue looking without having much luck.

However, it seems that things may be turning around in the near future, particularly when it comes to some bedroom action.

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Pegging by Girl on the Net

Well, I have met someone online, we are very much into each other and looking for something similar. Unfortunately they live in a different state to me, and only get to my home town every 6 to 8 weeks.

We have high expectations at the moment that we will meet in the coming weeks. At the moment it will be dinner or drinks & hopefully some fooling around in the bedroom. As is the case, online fun & thoughts sometimes don’t pan out the way you hope in person.

I’m trying not to get my hopes up too much. I have a habit of getting my hopes up, and then very disappointed when it does not work out as expected.

I have to catch myself before I let it go too far. I can almost feel it rising too far at the moment even though it is still a few weeks away & their travel plans are not locked in yet.

So those are my current sexual adventures for the moment, I hope they all work out for our sake. I will report back once more details are known.

Public sex

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Have you ever had sex in a public place?

Well who hasn’t, but then how many times would depend on what you consider a public place.

The first place I ever had public sex was with Missus Sub, we went and hid in the bushes of one of the local parks, Missus Sub climbed right on top, and rode my cock there and then until I came inside her. This was back in our pre-marriage days.

Does sex in the back seat of a car count as public sex? If so, there were many times with Missus Sub that we hoped in the back seat of the car, somewhere dark at night, even during the day sometimes. There were work cars, family cars, and even once in a friends car. They were fun times.

Also we were once caught doing it on a hotel balcony. While not exactly in a public place, we could be seen from a public place. I’m going to count balcony sex as sex in a public place.

So yes, I have had a number of sex adventures in public places.

Like to find out more about what makes me tick? Read more of my 30 Dirty Questions.

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Masturbation thoughts

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What do you think about when you masturbate?

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This is not a question that comes to mind often. Most of the time the thoughts passing through my mind during masturbation are whatever turns me on in that moment. I have not noticed a trend of thoughts where one of them sticks out more than any others.

Most recently, my thoughts have been drawn to transwomen. The idea of sucking on their girl cock/clit really gets my thoughts flowing, and often leads me to stroking my cock until it is hard and ready to ejaculate my warm, sticky cum.

Previously I have been drawn towards women who have undergone significant weight loss and have excess skin with texture, particularly around their waist and fupa. Not really sure where those thoughts originated.

Other times it is when I am feeling submissive. Times when I want a woman to take charge of my orgasms and control them, even controlling my boy pussy. Have her peg me, even with fantasy dildos.

My mind wanders to any number of things when it comes to masturbation. They are generally drawn to my thoughts of the month and what is currently turning me on, and driving my sexual desires.

I wonder where my masturbation thoughts will lead me next.

Transgender desires

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Content warning: I share some personal thoughts about transwomen. They are not intended to come across as fetishisation of transwomen.

As I write this (and the days leading up to writing these musings), my mind often wanders to the idea of being intimate with a transwoman.

I want to tease them. I want to play with and suck on their girlcocks/clits. I want to fondle and suckle on their breasts. I want to fuck them. I want to be fucked by them.

I want to have an intimate and pleasurable time with them as the transwoman they are.

I feel like this is somewhat fetishising them & their bodies, but it is a desire that my mind is drawn towards.