Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

William

The Grinch

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1 – Would you rather work on Christmas day and earn 4 times your daily salary or spend the day with your family?

Now that’s somewhat of a hard one. While I do love my family, I also know that 3 days of pay will certainly help with the bills and money, and buying Christmas presents for the kids.

Maybe if I worked Christmas Eve, and could be with the family from the morning through the rest of the day I would take the money, but then that is taking both options, and I think the objective is to pick one.

If forced to pick one, I’ll take Christmas Day with the family. Memories are what life is about, not so much money as I have alluded to before.

2 – Would you rather spend a snowy day outside playing winter games/sports or spend a snowy day inside with your most annoying relative?

Can I swap a snowy day for a stinking hot day?

I think I’ll take the stinking hot day over the really annoying relative. I’ll take the car for a drive to the beach, or the pool, or somewhere that I can cool down out of the sun of course (gotta protect my pale ass skin somehow).

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3 – For the month of December would you rather sing jingle bells really loud every time you enter a room or wear a Santa suit every day?

Ughhhh. Can I pick something other than those two choices?

I might take Jingle Bells if I can sing alternate versions to mix things up.

4 – Would you rather choose your presents or be surprised?

I’d much rather choose my presents, I get what I want, not what someone else thinks I might want. Although my most recent surprise was a Safety Razor that has turned into a new self care habit. So not all surprises are useless junk.

5 – Would you rather be Scrooge before he meets the ghost of Christmas or be the Grinch before becoming good?

I don’t really know either of those storylines. However I refer to myself as the Grinch in the leadup to Christmas most years, so I’ll go with the Grinch.

Maybe I need to watch both movies now. *wanders away pondering*

Sarah & William

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Sarah arrives home from work. She heads to the bedroom, and kicks off her heels as she flops on the bed after a long day at work. William is in the shower himself, and does not notice Sarah arrive home. He turns off the shower, and as he opens the door, Sarah is standing in the doorway, naked.

Seeing Sarah standing there, William turns on the shower, and motions for Sarah to join him. She slowly moves towards the shower, swaying her body teasingly.

Sarah and William shower together. William takes his time, soaping up Sarah’s body, washing every curve and crevice of her body. He pays special attention to Sarah’s nipples, and her clit. She moans with each touch and tease from William.

Soon the teasing finishes, and they both get out of the shower and dry off.

As they enter the bedroom, William grabs Sarah’s ass, kisses her neck. He whispers into her ear, “pick a pair of sexy heels, I want to show you who your daddy is.”

Sarah grabs her favourite pair of playtime heels. She sits on the bed, then slowly pulls them on seductively in front of William. He watches on, his cock getting hard. He wants to ravish Sarah, he knows the time will arrive, but he continues to enjoy the show from Sarah.

Sarah spreads her legs, her hands covering her pussy. She flashes William before hiding her pussy again. Williams eyes grow, and he watches Sarah intently.

The sexual tension builds in the room, William takes control of the bedroom. He orders Sarah to kneel on the bed, her arse high in the air. William drags his fingers all over Sarah’s back. From her shoulders, over her arse, and down the back of her thighs. She wiggles and jiggles her arse.

William continues, leaning forward, kissing along her spine. He kisses all around Sarah’s arse, making sure to occasionally leave a little bite mark on her meaty areas. He kneels behind Sarah, spreads her arse cheeks exposing her pussy lips. He leans forward, taking a deep breath before leaning in and kissing Sarah’s pussy lips.

His tongue slips through his lips, and licks along Sarah’s moist pussy lips. A moan escapes from Sarah’s lips. William takes his time, licking and kissing, His fingers dragging along Sarah’s legs from her heels to her arse. Sarah continues to moan and groan.

William stands and goes to the bedside table. He pulls out a butt plug and lube. He kneels behind Sarah again, he rubs some lube over Sarah’s anus and the plug. He places the plug against her anus, and slowly pushes on the plug. He takes his time working the plug inside Sarah. She groans as she is slowly stretched open. Sarah squeezes against the plug, and they push against each other until it finally pops inside Sarah’s anus.

William admires the crystal plug glistening in the afternoon light. He slaps Sarah’s ass. She squeals in delight at the playful nature of William.

William tells Sarah to lay on her back and spread her legs. William positions himself between Sarah’s legs. He leans forward again and kisses Sarah’s pussy lips. He takes his time licking along her lips from back to front. Then focuses on her clit. His hands press the plug as he feasts on her pussy. Sarah’s moans get louder and louder.

She rests her heels on Williams back. The pressure from the heels triggers William to work his tongue and fingers harder and faster on her pussy. William continues licking, and sucking on her pussy. When William hits one of Sarah’s sensitive areas, she groans and presses her heels deeper into William’s back. This goes on for quite some time. The masochist in William desires to feel the pain, which drives him to eat Sarah’s pussy harder and faster.

William stops feasting, he looks up at Sarah. Sarah looks down at William with a look on her face that says, “why did you stop?” They look at each other in silence.

William rises to his knees. He grabs his hard, pierced cock, and starts stroking himself. Slowly at first, slowly exposing and hiding his piercing from Sarah’s eyes. Sarah’s eyes widen. She loves playing with William’s piercing. She sits up and reaches out to grab his cock, but he brushes her hand away.

Sarah pouts, she wants to hold William’s hard cock & piercing. She loves to lick along his shaft, teasing the pierced head with her tongue, but William stops her. He continues stroking his hard cock. The head glistens with precum.

As William continues stroking himself, Sarah feels the need to touch herself, but as her fingers get close to touching herself, William swats them away. William does not want Sarah to orgasm now.

Sarah continues trying to touch herself, but William always swats her hand away just as she gets close. Sarah looks at William with a look of disapproval. William just looks back with a wry smile on his face.

William stands & grabs Sarah’s wand from the dresser. He joins her on the bed again, but kneels near her head. Sarah tries to lick his cock but it is just out of reach.

William drags the wand from Sarah’s breasts down to her thighs and over her body, skipping her vulva. He continues all over her belly & thighs.

William spreads Sarah’s legs wide open. Her vulva glistening with his saliva and her juices mixed together. He places the wand on her labia & Sarah groans ecstatically. After William licked her close to many orgasms, she needs to cum. The wand would send her over the edge, but William wants her whimpering, wants to hear her beg to orgasm.

William lowers the intensity of the wand. He knows Sarah is close to cumming, but he wants to tease our a long orgasm from her. However William knows how to draw an orgasm from deep within Sarah.

Top 100 sex blogs

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Last weekend, Molly published her annual Top 100 Sex Blogs for 2022. I did not make the list, I don’t even believe that my blog was nominated for the main list, or even the newcomers list.

Am I disappointed? In a way yes I am, but logically I know that because I wasn’t nominated that I can’t be on the list. Hell, I didn’t even nominate myself (whether it was allowed or not).

I shared some thoughts on the matter over on my Mastodon account. However it has been suggested that I expand on those initial thoughts some more here on the blog. While I have never been on the Top 100 list with any of my blogs, I am slightly concerned that writing about it like this will get me struck off the list permanently if I am nominated in the future.

Time and energy

One reason I don’t think I have been on the list before is having the time and energy to dedicate to learning to write high quality articles and stories consistently.

With two children, Missus Sub and I both working full time, dedicating the time and energy to writing can be a challenge.

Blog longevity

You might think having written 3 or 4 blogs over the space of 15 years, I would have a good understanding of writing for people. However in my day job, I’m writing for a technical audience, and that does not translate well to a casual reader.

So when you have a blog for 18-24 months, and you are only getting 10 to 15 views per day on average, the idea of having a successful blog slowly wanes out of existence. Sure I can comment on other blogs with links to my blog/s, get my thoughts out on social media with links to my blog/s, but again, a lack of time and energy hinders that.

Other reasons

I believe there are other reasons that see me not being added to the Top 100 list. I am not going to share those thoughts because they might be seen as libellous. I do not have the energy to defend my position on social media or blogs.

However I feel that sharing my beliefs will see me further ostracised from the sex blogging community. Links to my blog, or any comments I make will never be published on a sex blog other than my own. So I’m not intending to go down that path.

Where to from here

Even without libel, I feel like this blog post will end my chances for this blog ever making it onto a Molly’s Top 100 Sex Blogs.

Since the list has been published for 2022, hopefully I can move on for the next 10-12 months until the rumblings of the 2023 list come about. Maybe I’ll consider nominating for next years list (although more likely not) because I can’t see myself being added to the “echo chamber”.

Bottom of the food chain

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1 – What is something minor or seemingly insignificant in your life that actually contributes greatly to your happiness?

I feel like some recognition and thanks goes a long way. Yes there are some things that you need to do, but even just a little thanks, even from senior managers goes a long way to feeling appreciated. Yes doing your job doesn’t need thanks to be given, but it goes a long way to the motivation of employees. Happy employees equals more productive employees.

2 – Describe your life in 5 words.

Bottom of the food chain

3 – Have you ever been screwed over? What happened and how did you respond?

There are some days I feel like this happens every day in my life. Yes I might just be a whinger, and it probably happens far less than I think it does.

4 – What did you think was cool when you were young but is not cool now?

So many things. There were many things as a child that I remembered being cool and exciting and wanting to return to as an adult when I had more freedom, but when I go to them now as an adult, they don’t spark the same joy and excitement from all those years ago.

5 – Would you rather stay in or go out on a Friday night?

Generally I’m a home body. I’m an introvert and a quiet night at home, with the TV, movie and popcorn sounds delightful. Snuggling with a lovely partner takes it to the next level.

Bonus: Which word would you use if you could only use one for the rest of your life?

Boring

The blues

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I have alluded to having a non-monogamous partner in the past independent of my marriage to Missus Sub. I have also sworn to myself previously that after a non-monogamous relationship break up, that I would not go looking to enter into another one.

So I would like to share with those who may be interested, that I find myself in this post-relationship situation once again. Yes, I’ve entered the post-relationship blues again, telling myself that I do not want to go looking for another relationship to enter. BUT, I also find that I want to keep searching for a non-monogamous relationship.

I have a dark habit of setting myself some basic ground rules, and then turning against my rules when the situation I want to avoid comes and greets me. I just can’t stay away from the search.

What it is about the search, I don’t know? Maybe it is part of my identity, maybe I want to be a different person to who I feel that I am at the moment. I would like to know, but I do not know how to tease it out of my subconscious.

I try and write consistently in my journal, but they seem to be more rants than constructive conversations with myself. I’m considering mixing up how I journal to see if there are patterns in my thoughts & rants.

So I think I am now past the relationship blues, for the most part. There are still times I wish she would have replied and given me answer, or at least said goodbye, but for the most part I have accepted that it clearly wasn’t meant to be. There is no point dwelling on what could have been, what’s done is done.

Do while I may have had the post-relationship blues, I think they are mostly gone now, but that doesn’t stop them returning. I just need to acknowledge them and move on to new things, and hopefully stick with my convictions of the past, or re-evaluating them.