Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

Thoughts

An independent artist search

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Back in early November, I had a bright idea to update the design of my profile picture to use all across my NSFW online persona, from my avatar/Gravatar here on the blog, the profile picture on Mastodon, as well as over on Twitter (even though I don’t post) or whatever it is called today.

I would love to commission an independent artist to do the work, in an anime type style. So if you are reading this and think you might be suitable, I would love to have you reason out to one of my social media presences.

My initial search for an independent artist started over on Mastodon. I have not had much traction over there, however I have not put a huge amount of effort into searching or spreading the word about my search. I have had one bite, but that has not gone very far.

My original thoughts were for a point of view type image, taken from the point of a full-figured, busty transwoman looking down towards me, the picture of my is in focus, my eyes are focused ever so slightly to one side, and in the foreground, is her hard penis, it is blurry but obviously a penis. In a more safe-for-work version, the cock does not exist in the picture.

Now I’m not sure of the exact style I am after, I believe I am after something that is anime-like, but I don’t really know the exact style until I see it. I’m willing to pay your advertised fee, and will certainly spread the word as often as I can about your profile.

If you feel that this is something you might be interested in being part of, feel free to reach out to me via one of my social media accounts, leave a comment below, or you can send me an email to me.

Even if I don’t choose you, I will certainly give a shout out to my followers both here on the blog, as well as on social media. I know my reach is not great, but you never know your luck in a big world, your next big client might follow me.

Another announcement 🙄

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I am always posting about why I have nothing to say, I am not going to do that any more. I feel like I am posting for the sake of posting and creating drama.

So I am going forward from this post following these principles:

  • writing content that I enjoy writing
  • writing content when I enjoy writing
  • writing content because I want to write content

Occasionally the writing will be low quality (although I do my best otherwise), sometimes it will hit a nerve with my readers, maybe it will cause controversy. I would like to learn how to let those feelings go and let them just sit without making me feel bad about myself.

As someone mentioned the other day on one of the Subreddit’s that I follow over my my SFW alter ego, this is the internet, and not an airport, we don’t need to announce our departure or arrival on the scene. Yet here I am doing exactly that, making an announcement about my internet presence when it isn’t necessary or warranted.

Going forward

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What is there to actually write about?

This is a question that I have been sitting on for the best part of the last six months. The blog posts have dried up apart from a review post for a dildo that my wife and I quite enjoyed.

There hasn’t been much happening in my life of late to report on.

I have not been actively searching for a little to join me on a poly adventure (well maybe not 100% true but that is another story).

I’m thinking it might be time to call the blog quits (not that anybody will even notice its lack of existence if I did shut it down).

The Basilisk

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Neither of Missus Sub nor I have had the opportunity to purchase a new sex toy for a number of years. We were recently given the opportunity to review a product from the Laphwing catalogue of toys, so we were greatly honoured to try something new.

The catalogue of Laphwing is broad and varied, from traditional penile shaped dildos and vibrators, to fantasy and animal dildos. Our collection to date has generally been the traditional shaped toys, so we took the opportunity to try out a fantasy shaped dildo.

Our toy of choice for this review is the Basilisk Volcanic Rock 8.1″ Fantasy Dildo.

Material & Texture

The Laphwing website states that the Basilisk is made from premium silicone. It is firm when compressed in my hand, yet flexible when twisted and bent.

This feeling makes for what we believe is a well performing dildo. It stretches our vagina and arse, while still conforming to our insides without putting undue pressure in the wrong places.

The surface texture of the Basilisk allows for easy insertion through the gradual changes in overall size, but has enough texture to feel the smaller lumps when inserted.

Mounting

How does one use a dildo? There are a couple of ways: 1) held in your hand, thrusting yourself, 2) a partner holds it, and thrusts it for you, 3) a partner uses it with a harness, or 4) mounted to a flat surface, wall, mirror or floor using a suction cup.

The suction cup on the Basilisk is strong, and holds the dildos weight comfortably in any position we have tried it. Definitely love a dildo with a suction cup for some solo play in the shower.

Lube compatibility

Our preferred lubricant of choice are natural juices, Missus Sub is quite the juice maker.

However in the event that natural juices are not enough, we always go for a premium water based lubricant. Not only does it work well for us, but it also makes cleaning up at the end of a fun session that much easier.

We don’t dare use silicone based lubricants. We have had bad experiences in the past, and while we can test on a small area, we generally don’t run that risk with our toys.

Use water based lubricants only.

Cleaning

Because of the heavy texturing, as well as nooks and crannies, cleaning the Basilisk can be challenging, however a soft brush can help, but we haven’t had any problems with cleaning. A good toy cleaner, or simply soap and water and left to dry before putting away should result in a long lasting toy.

Overall thoughts

If you are looking for your first fantasy or animal dildo, the Basilisk Volcanic Rock is a great option. It is small enough and can start your journey, but also is varied enough for a variety of play, oral, vaginal and anal. The texture is suitable for a variety of sensations.

Would I purchase another, I sure would, and definitely open to trying other animal dildos from the Laphwing Sex Toys store.

An upcoming adventure

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It has been some time since I have written anything here on the blog about any sexual adventures or feelings. Mainly because not many adventures have been had.

I took a break from seeking any additional polyamorous partners for a few months. I find it exhausting to continue looking without having much luck.

However, it seems that things may be turning around in the near future, particularly when it comes to some bedroom action.

Cartoon image of a couple on a bed, the woman pegging the man on his back
Pegging by Girl on the Net

Well, I have met someone online, we are very much into each other and looking for something similar. Unfortunately they live in a different state to me, and only get to my home town every 6 to 8 weeks.

We have high expectations at the moment that we will meet in the coming weeks. At the moment it will be dinner or drinks & hopefully some fooling around in the bedroom. As is the case, online fun & thoughts sometimes don’t pan out the way you hope in person.

I’m trying not to get my hopes up too much. I have a habit of getting my hopes up, and then very disappointed when it does not work out as expected.

I have to catch myself before I let it go too far. I can almost feel it rising too far at the moment even though it is still a few weeks away & their travel plans are not locked in yet.

So those are my current sexual adventures for the moment, I hope they all work out for our sake. I will report back once more details are known.