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What do you think about when you masturbate?

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This is not a question that comes to mind often. Most of the time the thoughts passing through my mind during masturbation are whatever turns me on in that moment. I have not noticed a trend of thoughts where one of them sticks out more than any others.

Most recently, my thoughts have been drawn to transwomen. The idea of sucking on their girl cock/clit really gets my thoughts flowing, and often leads me to stroking my cock until it is hard and ready to ejaculate my warm, sticky cum.

Previously I have been drawn towards women who have undergone significant weight loss and have excess skin with texture, particularly around their waist and fupa. Not really sure where those thoughts originated.

Other times it is when I am feeling submissive. Times when I want a woman to take charge of my orgasms and control them, even controlling my boy pussy. Have her peg me, even with fantasy dildos.

My mind wanders to any number of things when it comes to masturbation. They are generally drawn to my thoughts of the month and what is currently turning me on, and driving my sexual desires.

I wonder where my masturbation thoughts will lead me next.

Masturbation – Question 24

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Today’s post is brought to you from Brigit Delaney‘s Dirty Questions.

How often do you masturbate and what works best for you?

Masturbation is an interesting topic to write about. I haven’t written about it here on the blog, and I d on’ recall writing about it on previous blogs I have attempted to maintain.

Masturbation isn’t something that I do on a regular basis. I think I would be lucky if I masturbated once per week. Occasionally the mood might call for two or three times throughout the week, but they are very rare occasions, just like the blue moons (maybe the blue moon is my blue balls needing some additional release).

Masturbation is not high on my list of bodily needs. Even sex does not come in high on my needs. I have a low testosterone and libido, and certainly does not match up to the average male.

Most of the time, when I am in the mood for a quick masturbation session, I usually rub out an orgasm in the shower when I get a few minutes of solitude. My quick session involves a finger to the anus to stimulate the erection, before releasing a much reduced cum load due to my vasectomy. That generally satisfies me most weeks if the need arises.

On rare occasions when I feel the need for something more, then I go down the path of some pain mixed with pleasure. My current go to for pain stimulation is my recent purchase of suction cups. These suction cups make quick work of getting the blood flowing in just the right places. Once the pain has been experienced, and the nipples pulled tight, a quick rub and tug gets the job done.

On the exceptionally rare cases, I do like to take my time with the suction cups, making sure I spend some quality time at full attention. These are the times when masturbation is about teasing my cock, keeping me on the edge of an orgasm (or two), before making a warm sticky mess of cum.