Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

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Foreplay

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What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types? Best experiences? Wishes?

Everyone’s definition of foreplay varies widely. So what definition of foreplay is implied with this question? My gut says that the question is aimed at the physical aspects of foreplay, however some people, myself included, believe there is far more to foreplay than cunnilingus and blowjobs.

In my definition of foreplay, there are many aspects. A good way to describe my definition of foreplay is with a three course dinner.

As each course has a different mood behind it, each course has a different feeling about it, and I like different aspects of each course. Obviously I have a preference for one particular course over another, but that changes depending on my mood at the time.

So let me share how I see foreplay as a three course dinner.

Entrée

The first course of foreplay is all about the flirtations and teasing that comes before you get together in person. The first two bites are the flirty text messages, and teasing talk. These bites set the scene for the course.

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The next couple of bites are the lewd picture swapping. This certainly wets the appetite for the rest of the foreplay dinner.

This part of the foreplay meal is about building the tension between all parties involved so that all are a little on edge and looking forward to a good experience with another person in a like-minded environment.

Main course

Once the entrée is complete, the main course arrives. In my eyes the main course of the foreplay dinner starts when you and your partner are in the presence of each other.

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That first kiss & hug is the first bite, the one that sets the scene of the main course.

After all the flirting & teasing with text & pictures as part of the entrée, to see & feel the person in your presence is an absolute delight. Now there is no need to rush through the course. It is all about taking your time to feel, to observe, and explore their body with your eyes & hands.

Slowly revealing themselves to you as you remove their clothing, inching closer and closer to the much desired skin-to-skin contact. The warmth of the body next to yours is the final bite for the main course.

Dessert

After the final bite of the main course, there is a slight pause before dessert comes out.

The final course of the foreplay dinner starts with the exploration of hands and fingers. The intimate touching and exploring starts, feeling all over each others bodies. The touching and feeling is not limited to hands and fingers alone, you can also use lips and tongues, and maybe a little teeth depending on the people involved.

I always ensure that any partner I am with really enjoys the final course of the foreplay dinner. I want any partner to have a memorable foreplay dessert.

Further thoughts

Not every time does foreplay follow the three course dinner plan, sometimes it is just the entrée and dessert, others it just mains and dessert.

While I wouldn’t pick any one of the foreplay courses over the other, my favourite part is just being in the presence of someone I love, helping them enjoy a foreplay dinner served by me.

What do you think about my foreplay dinner analogy? Does it resonate or intrigue you? Have you got another analogy for foreplay?

Horn levels

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The body and mind is a weird beast.

Unfortunately I managed to catch COVID from Missus Sub and/or Mr 4 on day 7 of their isolation period. So I’m now in isolation myself, but I have this strong urge to be sexual.

The mind is strange. For the last couple of weeks, the desire to be sexual, with Missus Sub or even just some self loving, have been low on the life agenda. But now that I can’t be intimate with anyone, the horniness has come roaring back.

Why that is the case, I do not know. However I suspect it is related to placing restrictions on myself. The freedom to be intimate with someone has been taken away because of the need to isolate.

I suspect it is because I do not have the choice to do as I please, that my body and mind want to do all the things I cannot do.

So what will I do about these new found horn levels? Well that is dependent on how my body feels.

The body is lacking in energy at the moment, but I find myself continually touching myself and my piercing. I want to stroke myself into orgasmic bliss. I have a desire to feast on the gorgeous pussy of Missus Sub. However I know that my body will limit my ability to go the distance of finishing the experience properly.

So for the next week or so, we shall see whether the horn levels remain, and whether I have the energy to do something about them.

The deckhand

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I have written this piece of fiction based on the perspective of the Traveller or Second Mate of Gemma & Jake’s six-month sailing adventure during 2021. I hope you enjoy.

For a number of weeks, I have been talking & messaging Gemma & Jake after discovering their sailing adventures on Twitter & admiring the many views of Gemma’s gorgeous breasts. They are making their way up the coast towards my home town and will be passing through in a few days.

Being a fan of sailing for some time, but never game to pull the plug on buying a yacht for myself, I asked whether I could come aboard. My request includes an offer to be a deckhand and chef for a few days.

After another day or so of conversation, Gemma & Jake agree. I pack my bag ready for boarding, and gather a few supplies to bring with me on the trip.

On the day of boarding, I eagerly awaited their arrival at the jetty. My heart raced as I waited, not knowing what to expect. Would they appreciate my company & cooking? Would I rub them the wrong way with my personality? Who knows, but we will only find out by meeting them in person.

I see a yacht approaching the jetty, could it be Gemma & Jake? I check my phone to see a message saying they are just a few minutes away & will be arriving shortly. It must be them, I tell myself.

A few minutes pass by and a yacht pulls up alongside the jetty. A body shape I recognise as Gemma is at the helm as Jake is tying some fenders to the port side to protect the yacht from the jetty.

I stand up from the bench I am sitting on, and offer to tie down one of the lines Jake throws to moor the yacht to the jetty. I need to make a good impression to start upon meeting Gemma & Jake.

Once moored, Gemma & Jake jumped onto the jetty & I introduce myself as William. I can not help but admire the tan’s and bodies of both of them. Dirty thoughts cross my mind of how their bodies look without clothes, but introductions are warranted first.

After some introductions, Gemma & Jake climb aboard their yacht, and Jake assists with my bag & box of supplies they had requested I bring along.

I assist with casting off from the jetty before jumping aboard for an exciting adventure with Gemma & Jake.

The adventure starts with a few hours of afternoon sailing. I assist Jake as best I can on an unfamiliar yacht. I help adjusting the sails to the wind conditions, pouring the occasional drinks for everyone, and making sure everyone has the necessary food in their hands.

The conversation easily flows throughout the afternoon. Jake navigates us to one of the sheltered moorings along the coast. We moor for the afternoon & evening.

After readying the yacht for the weather conditions, I opt for a swim in the crystal blue waters. Gemma opts for some nude sunbathing on deck & Jake reads the book he is currently working through.

I hop back on the yacht and head towards the deck where Gemma & Jake are. I sit down next to Gemma and lean in to whisper in her ear, “I’m loving your gorgeous bodies in the sun. Do you mind if I nude up?”

Now I don’t get nude in front of strangers (unless they consent of course). I only nude up for people on the internet, or my partner at the time. However today I wanted to give it a go on a yacht.

Gemma tells me it is fine, so I take off my board shorts and lay back under the sun. My mind wanders for a bit, wondering how Jake’s cock looks like both hard & soft, and how Gemma’s pussy looks & tastes.

These thoughts give me a slightly hard cock & I blurt out, “What are you two like in the bedroom? Do you guys go off?”

Gemma & Jake lift their heads quickly and look at me quizzically as if I said something awkward. Clearly I did, but clearly my small brain is doing all the thinking at the moment.

I apologise for my outburst.

Gemma’s quizzical face turns into a wry smile & she looks at Jake. She whispers into his ear and soon reaches into his shorts while kissing him. It feels like something will soon be happening with the three of us.

After what feels like an eternity of Gemma & Jake kissing & touching each other, Jake removes his shorts and I get to witness his glorious cock first hand. Gemma has it standing to attention.

Jake motions for me to join them. I kneel at their feet just watching. I comment how gorgeous they both look under the afternoon sun. I also comment about Jake’s cock, and ask if I can touch & suck on it.

Jake looks hesitant, but allows me to touch his cock. I caress it while Gemma distracts him. His hard cock leaks a little precum & I rub it over his cock head.

I lean further in, taking just his cock head into my mouth. His precum tastes wonderful. I take his cock a little deeper into my mouth. Jake doesn’t push me away, so I continue working his cock with my hands & mouth. A few moans escape his lips as I pay special attention to the underside of his cock head.

I pull back, & turn my attention to Gemma. I spread her legs to reveal her mound and lips. I lean forward & take a deep breath, the sea air mixes with Gemma’s scent. I drag my fingers along her slit & through the hair on her mound.

After spending some time teasing & twirling my fingers on her, I lean in closer to taste her. My tongue parts her lips & taste Gemma. She tastes as good as she smells. I lap my tongue on her pussy lips, getting her juices all over my face.

I reach up with one hand, my fingers find a breast and I squeeze gently. I am unsure how sensitive her nipples are. I pull back and watch Jake playing with Gemma’s nipple. I take a mental note for next time.

Since this is my first time with Gemma & Jake, I am not sure what will happen next. I kneel watching them under the glow of the sun.

Gemma & Jake stop kissing. Gemma kneels & has me lie back on the deck. She gets between my legs and takes my cock in her mouth. Jake lays nearby stroking his cock keeping himself hard while watching as Gemma expertly sucks my cock.

This continues for a few minutes. I can feel a deep urge rising within the group.

Gemma stops sucking my cock, and positions herself above my waist. She squats down, grabs my cock, & rubs my cock along her pussy lips.

She positions my cock & squats deeper onto my cock. She gasps at the feeling of my cock entering her pussy. Jake smiles as he watches on.

I look at Jake making sure he is comfortable with the current situation. He continues stroking his cock with a smile on his face.

I motion for him to bring his cock towards my face. I want to feel both of them inside & on me.

I ask him to position himself so I can continue sucking his hard cock. He feels awkward about it, but agrees to let me continue.

The three of us enjoy ourselves on the deck, Gemma riding my cock, as I am sucking Jake’s hard cock. I feel as though this could last for hours.

Gemma leans forward and pulls Jake’s cock from my mouth and starts sucking it herself. I am enjoying this moment of being with two lovely bodies, fucking on a yacht. I offer to let Gemma use Jake’s cock, but she says that she is enjoying my cock right now.

Jake allows Gemma to continue riding my cock. I take Jake’s cock back and get Jake close to an orgasm. I can feel him twitching. I ask Gemma where we should have Jake cum. She tells me to have him cum on my chest. I continue working Jake’s cock until he cums on my chest. I drain every last drop of cum from his cock on my chest.

Jake sits back, relaxed and empty as he watches Gemma continue riding my cock.

Gemma rides my cock harder & faster, I feel her vagina squeezing against my cock. Her orgasm is building. I reach up and grab Gemma’s breasts. I lightly pinch her nipples as Jake was doing earlier.

Gemma moans as she continues to ride my cock. Her body tenses & she squeezes my cock. One last nipple pinch and Gemma’s orgasm releases. Her moans racing across the calm water. She bobs a few more times on my cock before collapsing on the deck beside me.

The three of us lay on the deck basking in the setting sunlight. Each of us content with how the afternoon unfolded.

Gemma looks at me asking whether I want an orgasm. I politely decline saying, “My orgasm comes from seeing you guys enjoying yourselves. I’m sure there will be more sexual exploring over the next few days.”

With the sun slowly descending, my stomach growls. I stand up & offer to start dinner preparations. However Jake’s sticky cum is still on my chest, and what better way than a quick swim to rinse off.

I dive off the yacht for a quick dip, Gemma & Jake follow behind me. I splash them playfully before climbing aboard, drying myself & putting on a shirt & board shorts readying myself before I start preparing dinner.

Gemma & Jake follow me shortly after offering me a drink to celebrate our first night aboard the yacht.

Christina and John

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Christina and John sat on the lounge watching the morning news at the start of a warm summer long weekend. They had nothing planned apart from a coffee in hand & some toast on the table.

An interesting news story came up about kinks in the bedroom. they looked at each other and a smirk rolled across Christina’s face. John looked slightly puzzled but smiled back at his gorgeous wife.

They continued watching the news as they finished their toast & coffee.

Once they were finished, Christina stood up, lifted her short skirt & flashed her pantyless arse at John. She collected the cups and plate before whisking them away to the kitchen. John sat there stunned but happy as Christina’s flash stirred something inside he hadn’t felt in a while.

Christina came back from the kitchen and sat down again, although closer to John this time. She grabbed his hand & guided his fingers to her wet cunt. She guided his fingers up and down her pussy lips as her breathing became slightly more laboured.

The sex between Christina and John had been fairly mundane recently, and he was not expecting this at this time of day. He was enjoying the moment and waited to see where Christina’s mind would go and what she wanted from him.

Christina leaned towards John & moaned in his ear. She said quietly “Eat me, now!”

John immediately obeyed. He pushed the coffee table away from the lounge, he kneeled between Christina’s legs, pulled her forward & dove right into her cunt.

John lapped at her cunt. He had been wanting this for a while but he was also afraid to ask her because of their recent mundane sex lives. The way she whispered in his ear stirred something he had never felt before.

John made short work of bringing Christina to the verge of an orgasm. His tongue knew how to tease her cunt getting her juices flowing.

Christina writhed on the lounge, pushing John’s face hard against her as his tongue worked against her growing clit. She had missed John’s tongue for the last few months, now she wondered why everyday hadn’t been like this.

After what seemed like an eternity of writhing on the lounge, Christina finally came from John’s tongue & lips feasting at her cunt. She pushed him away, panting, stood up and left John just sitting there, his face covered in her juices.

John sat there stunned. His wife had just used him to get herself off, but did nothing about his hard cock like she normally did. He was disappointed but knew something was different about this weekend.

Christina & John – Part 2

The first thing in bed

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I would kiss my way down your body, over your breasts giving them a little suck on the way down. After that, I would kneel between your legs, leaning forward to take in the scent emanating from between your legs.

I would lean forward, dragging my tongue along your pussy lips, feeling the heat coming from inside you before parting your pussy lips to expose your cunt & clit as my tongue reaches inside, tasting your juices and heat.

My tongue working my way along your cunt & clit, working you towards an long drawn out orgasm.