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On purpose

26.10.2022 by William

1 – What are you focusing on in your life right now?

I have many bad habits that I would like to either eliminate, or cut back on significantly. So I am doing what I can to change some of these. This is my focus in life.

2 – Select one thing that you value most right now
a. being a good partner or friend
b. becoming your best self
c. feeling happier, more fulfilled
d. performing well at work

I value all of these things. But the one that I value most at the moment is feeling happier and being more fulfilled with my life. Life has felt flat for quite some time, and someone pointed it out that I sound and live my life choosing to be miserable rather than positive. This is probably somewhat true, but only because I don’t know how to be positive thinking by default.

3 – Which type of well-being tool is of most interest to you? (pick one) Why?
a. guided meditation
b. life coaching workshops
c. personal therapy
d. social content

Well social content is pushed into any social media that people use, however it is usually fairly shallow and really only helps in the moment for a giggle.

I think the most beneficial would be personal therapy, but I need to want to do these things, and have a therapist that I can connect with an meet with regularly. I’m not sure how to achieve that for a reasonable fee for service.

4 – On a scale from 1 to 5, How much are you enjoying your life?
1 = not at all
5 = fully

I generally wander between 1s, 2s and 3s. I don’t recall a time when I could say that I had a rating higher than a 3. Maybe select events in my life have ratings of 4 or above, but if you look at everything, I’d probably say that I average out at a 2.

5 – What have you been struggling with lately?
a. feeling needed
b. making friends
c. improving mental health
d. building career
e. feeling supported

I’m just going to say it, all of the above!

Bonus: On a scale from 1 to 5, how hopeful do you feel about the future?
1 = not at all
5 = extremely

My first thought for this question was a 1. But upon thinking about it somewhat, I would have to go with 2.5-ish. While I don’t have high hopes for the future (yes I’m a doom & gloomer), there are glimpses every now and then.

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: tmi-tuesday

Elust #154

22.10.2022 by William

Image courtesy of Amber Jayne.

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In the moment

21.10.2022 by William

Right now, I have been watching some amateur porn with people watching fantasy dildos. Watching this porn stirs something deep inside me. I tweeted about it of course.

https://twitter.com/givinglessfucks/status/1583247554653085696

Now it does not matter whether the person has a vulva or a penis, I wish it is me riding that fantasy dildo enjoying the moment.

I’m not suggesting I wish to have a vulva of my own, but in the moment I wish I have one to enjoy the sensation of being penetrated with a large fantasy dildo.

Filed Under: Musings Tagged With: anal, dildo, penis, pussy

Dildo thoughts

19.10.2022 by William

This post is about sharing some of my raw thoughts and emotions than a detailed blog post. I may post short little thoughts from time to time to learn about myself.

You may have seen my tweet about some porn I stumbled across over on Reddit.

https://twitter.com/givinglessfucks/status/1582474121338032128

As I write this entry, I have thoughts rolling in my head about spending time alone with a dildo, lube and my ass.

The idea of riding a dildo excites me. However finding the time to do so is my greatest challenge. There are other little things that stop me from doing so, but with time I can work through those issues.

Filed Under: Musings Tagged With: anal, dildo, submissive

Do tell

18.10.2022 by William

Just curious. If you are in an open relationship, would it bother you if your partner’s new lover sent you pics of them together? Why or why not?

For me, it would really depend on what the agreement was about the level of details we should share with each other about our non-monogamous partners. If all parties were open to it, I would not mind, but generally I think I prefer they keeps pics just for themselves rather than sharing with me unless it is something I specifically ask for.

What is the rudest thing someone can do in your home?

Have sex with your significant other on the assumption they were just coming over to watch a movie and hang out with your significant other. BTW, this is a true story.

What would you change, if anything, about your experience growing up?

I think that the one thing I would change is not being so uptight about money during my twenties and learn to live life and travel more than I did. Since reaching my thirties and having children, I regret not living life more full when I was younger.

The absolute worst fight you have ever had with a significant other, what was it about?

See the question about about the rudest thing someone can do in your home. It lead to some serious discussions and I believe a few nights were spent on the sofa by one of us as a result of it.

What is your favourite place to visit in your city or town?

Now that’s a hard one to answer, I don’t usually travel around my city and find places I really enjoy. But one thing I do enjoy is taking photographs of steam trains in new places I haven’t seen them before.

Bonus: Were you your mom or dad’s favourite kid?

I think there are days where I was because I was the more docile of the two of us. However I think my brother could be sometimes just because.

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: non-monogamy, tmi-tuesday

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