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Naked

07.09.2022 by William

1 – What do you wear to sleep in?

For about 1% of the time, I’m as naked as the day I was born. The rest of the time I’m wearing either a boxer trunk or briefs.

2 – Do you ever walk around your own place naked?

With two children, I’m generally clothed to some degree. Before children, I occasionally was bare-ass naked.

3 – Have you or would you ever answer the door naked?

The only reason I would do so is if I had planned for some sexy times with a partner and they knew about it before hand. Consent is key.

4 – What part of your body do you like to be on show? Why?

I’m generally not comfortable being naked. I’m not an exhibitionist, but if I had to show one body part, it would be my pierced penis.

5 – When sunbathing how much do you bare?

What is sunbathing? I’m as white as a piece of paper under my clothes, and the slightest amount of sun turns me lobster red. I’m generally covered in at least t-shirt and shorts.

6 – Have you or would you bare all on a naturist (nude) beach?

I have thought about baring all on a nudist beach. However being ashamed of my body it would need to be near enough to deserted, which means cold, overcast weather if I were to do it.

7 – Have you ever flashed your bits in public? If not would you if it turned your partner on?

Nope. I’m not sure I could bring myself to do it. Although I wouldn’t mind Missus Sub flashing for a Sinful Sunday or Scavenger Hunt photo.

8 – Have you ever given a striptease or has anyone given you one? Did you enjoy it?

Unfortunately I have never given or been on the receiving end of a striptease. In my mind, I would certainly enjoy being given a striptease by a lovely lady.

9 – Ever gone skinny dipping? Alone or with others?

The only skinny dipping I have done, was in a private hotel hot tub once with Missus Sub, my former poly girlfriend and her husband. It was an enjoyable experience, lots of touching and feeling each others bodies, heaps of kissing and maybe even a naughty touch or three.

10 – Do you like to look at naked people or do you want show off your nakedness?

I’m very much more of a voyeur than an exhibitionist. I love the naked female body in many shapes and sizes.

Bonus: Sexually speaking, what’s the furthest you would go with a partner in public? Have you had sex in public?

What’s the definition of public? In a large park, Missus Sub and I found some trees in a somewhat secluded area and had sex amongst them, if someone walked near they would have seen us, but unless they were close, they wouldn’t have suspected what we were up to. We weren’t full on naked, mainly pants down to our knees and skirt hiked up, but we weren’t fully naked.

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: tmi-tuesday

Prostate play

28.08.2022 by William

Prostate play, or prostate massage, is the act of massaging or stimulating the prostate gland for sexual stimulation. It was previously used as medical therapy, but this is no longer the case.

In my opinion, there is two forms for prostate play, massage & milking.

My experience

My experience with prostate play is limited. I have only engaged in light prostate massage with toys and fingers. I find that ongoing massage leading to milking leads to unbearable sensations that become uncomfortable.

However, the times I engaged in prostate play were some of the most enjoyable sexual experiences I have been involved in. My prostate has been stimulated in a number of ways including both fingers and toys.

My favourite method for prostate play is during the submissive moments that are experienced while being pegged.

Intimacy

I find that exposing one self for prostate play requires a high level of intimacy. I do not feel comfortable opening myself up for prostate play on a first date. I feel that it needs a level of trust that I cannot give to anyone I meet for the first time.

I have only felt comfortable to open up for prostate play with two people, Missus Sub and a previous poly partner involving pegging. Both ladies have stimulated my prostate using toys and the intimate act of pegging.

Recent experience

Unfortunately there has not been much experience lately. I have not been on the receiving end of prostate stimulation for quite some time. It is something I would like to bring back, but family life makes this somewhat difficult. I suspect it will make a renaissance once the children are older.

Future desire

Writing about prostate play is bringing back memories of play times of the past, the emotional intimacy required to submit to someone and expose yourself for prostate play. While I write this, my mind wanders into engaging in some solo prostate play if I cannot get some private time with Missus Sub.

The idea of a leaking cock because there is pressure on my prostate from a butt plug or dildo certainly stirs something deep inside my mind and body.

Hopefully there will be some prostate play in my near future, but if there isn’t there will always be the reminder of fictional stories about prostate play.

Filed Under: Blog Prompts, Kinks Tagged With: anal, kink of the week, non-monogamy, prostate play

Caped superhero

21.08.2022 by William

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: penis, piercing, prince albert, sinful sunday

Elust #152

21.08.2022 by William

Image courtesy of Margot Alderton.

Welcome to Elust 152.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #153? Send in a post anytime and Oz will add it to the next edition.

Please subscribe to email updates to receive two emails per month from Elust. A reminder once a month on the 1st send in submissions and a copy of the latest edition of Elust on the 15th of every month.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Hard To Come By- Barefoot’s Orgasm Journey
Gauging up

Sex Work

La Belle Horizontale
Foxy Couple
Birthday Gangbang
I love Roleplay

Erotic Fiction

Stolen Love from Russia
Moon Feather: Part 48: Terms and Conditions
Strangers in a Bar
Bedroom Eyes 7
Tossing His Caber – Highland Spanking Romance

Erotic Non Fiction

Teaching Tommy

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Nosakki Clitoral Stimulator with Thrusting Bullet Vibrator
13 Best Fun Factory Sex Toys (& 5 I dislike)

Books, TV and Movies

Review of Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty’s Guide to Building Your Own Sex Room
All in the contract
Living Rent Free in my Head
BDSM Collars: Symbolism & Collaring Ceremonies

Writing about writing

Sex, Strawberries and Cream

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: elust

Togetherness

17.08.2022 by William

1. Do you prefer:

  • Parties
  • Intimate get-togethers
  • Playdates
  • None of the above; they’re all overrated

While I can deal with crowds, the introvert in me much prefers a smaller event, so a small intimate get-together or a playdate is my preference. I’d rather have a conversation in smaller groups rather than being all overwhelmed.

2. What is your preferred bedtime?

  • What’s a bedtime?
  • Between 8:00 p.m. and 10:00 p.m.
  • Early to bed early to rise
  • Late night party animal and/or insomniac

I don’t really think I fit into any of those categories. I do prefer a later bedtime than 10pm, but then I’m not a party animal or insomniac. I just prefer the quiet of the evening, after the kids are asleep I can do as as I please, watch what I want, have adult time uninterrupted.

3. Do you and your significant other go to bed at the same time?

At the moment, no. One the kids insists on my Missus Sub going to bed much earlier than I. Not really sure, but while it is nice to be awake alone at night, it would be nice to spend time with Missus Sub at the same time.

4. Do you compliment your significant other? How often? Do they return the return the gesture?

Compliments are not one of my giving love languages. I do my best where I can though.

5. Do you and your significant other share:

  • More hobbies together than not
  • Less hobbies in common compared to all your hobbies
  • All hobbies– we like and do the same things
  • Nothing at all. We enjoy completely different hobbies.

We have one or two hobbies in common, but otherwise our hobbies generally don’t cross paths, except when Missus Sub craft supplies cross into my garage territory.

Bonus: Do you go walking on a regular basis with your significant other? Research says doing this activity together brings you closer.

It really would be nice to do things like this together, but the children aren’t interested in walking and they would complain, but we’d have to end up at some park with the playground, and unfortunately the kids won’t entertain themselves so we could observe from a distance walking in circles.

Filed Under: Blog Prompts Tagged With: tmi-tuesday

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