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14.04.2022 by William Leave a Comment

The nervousness is slowly building. The time is slowly approaching. It is only a few hours away now.

After delaying the much thought about Prince Albert piercing, I have confirmed that my chosen piercing studio is open this evening. I will be making the drive after work to get this piercing done and dusted, and allow the long weekend to rest & recover from the dreaded post-procedure pain & bleeding before returning to work.

Many people have written about their experiences with getting Prince Albert piercings and most seem to come across as harmless with minimal bleeding and fuss. However we always focus on the worst reports we see. (Bloody Reddit!)

I do not have intentions to pike out of it, but I know that I have pulled out of similar events before. People from Reddit believe in me, friends believe in me, and Mrs Wallace believes in me. Everyone has more faith in me than I have in myself.

But as I mentioned, I have had these thoughts on an off for around five years now and never once acted upon them. Now is the opportunity to go through with it and make these years long thoughts a reality.

Love and money

12.04.2022 by William Leave a Comment

Could you fall in love with and set up home with someone who has $100,000 (usd) in debt?

Money is always a contentious issue when it comes to relationships. Starting a relationship with significantly different levels of debt could cause issues, unless the debt is warranted, for example a HECS debt here in Australia for higher education is something that is paid off through taxation, so not really a huge burden versus say $100,000 of credit card debt with massive interest rates.

However, could I fall in love with and setup a home, for the right person I probably could, but they would need to fill a lot of my kink shoes.

Is it important for you to be the breadwinner or make more money than your significant other?

Do I want to earn more than my wife? No. I want my wife to earn as much as she is capable and comfortable as long as she enjoys what she does, and we are living within our means.

Are you happy with your chosen career path? What could be better?

What I do as a career is fine, the problem that I have is the office politics and all that goes along with it. I love learning new skills and knowledge about the career I have chosen. The only thing that could make it better would be removing the office politics that go along with it, (and deadlines of course).

Would you start a business with your significant other? Why or why not?

I have no interest in starting a business from the ground up. I don’t have the drive to setup the foundations of a business, let alone starting a business of some sort with my wife.

Bonus: Can money buy you love?

No. It makes some aspects of life easier, which may allow me time to explore my relationship with my wife. But money cannot buy love directly.

BDSM Test

11.04.2022 by William Leave a Comment

Every few months I do the BDSM Test and see how my kinks have evolved, been added to, or fallen away into the background.

These are my latest set of results, and as usual, being a Switch remains top of my list. But what does surprise me this time is that for most of BDSM Archetypes categorised, most of them are paire for both the top and bottom sides of them, for instance, Sadism & Masochism, and Boy/Girl & Daddy/Mommy.

I guess it is something that cements in the idea of being a true Switch.

BDSM Archetype	Rating
Switch	100%
Masochist	83%
Sadist	82%
Rope bunny	80%
Submissive	79%
Boy/Girl	76%
Daddy/Mommy	75%
Non-monogamist	74%
Experimentalist	73%
Rigger	71%
Dominant	70%
Ageplayer	69%
Brat	69%
Voyeur	61%
Primal (Prey)	52%
Brat Tamer	50%
Pet	46%
Primal (Hunter)	40%
Slave	31%
Vanilla	31%
Degradee	30%
Degrader	29%
Master / Mistress	17%
Exhibitionist	14%
Owner	7%

http://bdsmtest.org/r/ac5rpDt5

Here’s to the next time I do the test and see how I have evolved.

Piercing thoughts

07.04.2022 by William Leave a Comment

Over the last few weeks, the idea of getting a Prince Albert piercing has been near the front of my mind. The idea of having a 10 gauge needle stuck through my body, and a ring slipped through after the needle, then left to hang off the body both excites and terrifies me.

My mind continually wanders between the excitement of doing something different for myself, something that some people see as taboo, and complete terror at having a complete stranger stick a needle through the skin of an intimate body part that few people have seen. However the idea that I have been having these thoughts for many years, without going away, means that the mind is really leaning towards getting the piercing.

The biggest issue that I am coming to terms with is how it will look. As an uncircumcised man, the piercing will not sit the same way as 99% of images on the internet portray the Prince Albert piercing. Most piercing websites, blogs, and Reddit have Prince Albert piercing pictures on circumcised penis’. A few pics appear for uncircumcised penis’ but it is hard to imagine how it will sit for me.

Apart from the appearance, some people report excessive bleeding in the 24 hours after the piercing, that also turns me off the idea. Many people say this excessive bleeding only happens in some circumstances, my mind always wanders to the worst case scenario for myself, and that will be excessive bleeding from the piercing site. While I am not afraid of blood, the idea of blood pouring out of my crotch does not appeal to me.

As of writing this blog post, I am ready to get the piercing, and I am also not ready to get the Prince Albert piercing. I feel that it is best to just go and get it done to put the idea to bed, but do I want a permanent hole in my body in my penis?

I think I need to just take the plunge, four years of thinking about it, and the idea of getting the piercing not going away, is clearly the universe telling me I need to do something about these thoughts.

Opening statements

04.04.2022 by William

I have lost track of how m any times I have considered re-starting a blog of some form. For the last few years I have chickened out of writing in digital format on a blog, and have opted for a hand written journal. Hopefully this becomes more than a handful of posts.

Having used an old school paper journal for many years, those paper journals have been mainly dedicated to the vanilla side of life, problems with work, life and family. I have kept sex and kink locked away mentally and lost the the ability to write and share my thoughts about how they affected me. I have been thinking about how to incorporate them given my history has of journaling has been vanilla.

I’m not sure that I will be able to incorporate my sex and kink in my journal, so why not write about theme here on a public blog. I’m sure that there will be some posts that come with a password for those I know personally and want to share with. Just as I’m sure there will be other posts that will be for my eyes only. But I feel I need to get these words down and out and onto some form of paper, even if they are just digital 1s and 0s of computer code.