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Prostate play
Prostate play, or prostate massage, is the act of massaging or stimulating the prostate gland for sexual stimulation. It was previously used as medical therapy, but this is no longer the case.
In my opinion, there is two forms for prostate play, massage & milking.
My experience
My experience with prostate play is limited. I have only engaged in light prostate massage with toys and fingers. I find that ongoing massage leading to milking leads to unbearable sensations that become uncomfortable.
However, the times I engaged in prostate play were some of the most enjoyable sexual experiences I have been involved in. My prostate has been stimulated in a number of ways including both fingers and toys.
My favourite method for prostate play is during the submissive moments that are experienced while being pegged.
Intimacy
I find that exposing one self for prostate play requires a high level of intimacy. I do not feel comfortable opening myself up for prostate play on a first date. I feel that it needs a level of trust that I cannot give to anyone I meet for the first time.
I have only felt comfortable to open up for prostate play with two people, Missus Sub and a previous poly partner involving pegging. Both ladies have stimulated my prostate using toys and the intimate act of pegging.
Recent experience
Unfortunately there has not been much experience lately. I have not been on the receiving end of prostate stimulation for quite some time. It is something I would like to bring back, but family life makes this somewhat difficult. I suspect it will make a renaissance once the children are older.
Future desire
Writing about prostate play is bringing back memories of play times of the past, the emotional intimacy required to submit to someone and expose yourself for prostate play. While I write this, my mind wanders into engaging in some solo prostate play if I cannot get some private time with Missus Sub.
The idea of a leaking cock because there is pressure on my prostate from a butt plug or dildo certainly stirs something deep inside my mind and body.
Hopefully there will be some prostate play in my near future, but if there isn’t there will always be the reminder of fictional stories about prostate play.
Breasts
While I am an owner of male breasts, I find myself a great lover of breasts.
I’m not sure what it is about breasts, but I find myself drawn towards them. Many a kink that I have interest in can be attributed to them. From Adult Nursing Relationships, to breast bondage, stretch marks, and just fondling and admiring their form.
Whether the breasts are fully exposed, covered by hands, or in a bra, when photos of them are shared, via ethical porn or shared by the breast owners, I just love adoring them, and they stir something deep in my loin.
So what about breasts stir my arousal? I don’t really know, because no matter their shape, size, the way they sit on their owners body, I love watching them, especially if they have a small bounce or jiggle to them 🙈
Is there a perfect breast? I don’t believe there is a perfect breast, but I do have some favourites. Unfortunately I can’t share them, but one of them is below.
One of my favourite breasts
Fellow blogger and inspiration, Mrs Jones from Corrupting Mrs Jones (and Twitter), started a hashtag from her sailing trip in 2021 called #travellingboob. I have been a long term fan, and look forward to her travelling pics and stories on her blog. I even go back and look through them every few weeks. I really can’t get enough of breasts, and hers are highly ranked, Missus Sub will always be my number one pair of breasts.
Self voyeurism
The idea of self voyeurism is not one of my personal kinks. I am personally repulsed by my body and I struggle with self-love and compassion for myself.
I’ve tried numerous times to be comfortable watching myself, both in the mirror of a bedroom I have shared with Missus Sub, or previous non-monogamous partners I have had. I try my best to position myself away from the mirror, or when we do face a mirror, I look away and focus on the person I am with.
However before that, the idea of making home movies also came to mind, and while Missus Sub and I created them when we were much younger, I don’t recall ever watching them, or if I did, I wasn’t all that turned on.
On top of watching myself in mirrors, and home-made porn movies, there are also the pics one takes of themselves to share with others. While I manage to take the occasional one, and maybe share it online, I still don’t like looking at them. Posting the following picture is taking courage, and I’m struggling to justify posting it.
Now that’s not to say that it doesn’t work for others, but for me, it certainly doesn’t work at all. It is a shame because I do like listening to the sounds that Missus Sub and I make when we are together, but seeing my body is a major turn off.
So while self voyeurism works for some, it does not work for me.
Socks
On their own, socks don’t come front and centre to my mind as being related to kink. I do know that many people enjoy wearing socks, especially longer ones, and some even associate it with little girls as part of their Daddy Dom, little girl dynamics.
I generally keep socks for wearing with footwear, and keeping my toes warm in winter on the cold floors. The vast majority of my socks are sports socks as they are my go to, but I have others for work related footwear and activities. Kink related to sock wearing is not part of my playbook.
However, there is something that just turns me on seeing a woman wearing long socks, just in underwear and a large t-shirt over the top. I think it plays right into my DDlg kink. Not sure what it is though, but it floats my boat.
Could I pull off photos of myself wearing some long, brightly coloured socks, wearing nothing but my new Prince Albert piercing? I certainly don’t think so even with a dose of self esteem directly into the brain.