Musings of a Switch

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The Basilisk

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Neither of Missus Sub nor I have had the opportunity to purchase a new sex toy for a number of years. We were recently given the opportunity to review a product from the Laphwing catalogue of toys, so we were greatly honoured to try something new.

The catalogue of Laphwing is broad and varied, from traditional penile shaped dildos and vibrators, to fantasy and animal dildos. Our collection to date has generally been the traditional shaped toys, so we took the opportunity to try out a fantasy shaped dildo.

Our toy of choice for this review is the Basilisk Volcanic Rock 8.1″ Fantasy Dildo.

Material & Texture

The Laphwing website states that the Basilisk is made from premium silicone. It is firm when compressed in my hand, yet flexible when twisted and bent.

This feeling makes for what we believe is a well performing dildo. It stretches our vagina and arse, while still conforming to our insides without putting undue pressure in the wrong places.

The surface texture of the Basilisk allows for easy insertion through the gradual changes in overall size, but has enough texture to feel the smaller lumps when inserted.

Mounting

How does one use a dildo? There are a couple of ways: 1) held in your hand, thrusting yourself, 2) a partner holds it, and thrusts it for you, 3) a partner uses it with a harness, or 4) mounted to a flat surface, wall, mirror or floor using a suction cup.

The suction cup on the Basilisk is strong, and holds the dildos weight comfortably in any position we have tried it. Definitely love a dildo with a suction cup for some solo play in the shower.

Lube compatibility

Our preferred lubricant of choice are natural juices, Missus Sub is quite the juice maker.

However in the event that natural juices are not enough, we always go for a premium water based lubricant. Not only does it work well for us, but it also makes cleaning up at the end of a fun session that much easier.

We don’t dare use silicone based lubricants. We have had bad experiences in the past, and while we can test on a small area, we generally don’t run that risk with our toys.

Use water based lubricants only.

Cleaning

Because of the heavy texturing, as well as nooks and crannies, cleaning the Basilisk can be challenging, however a soft brush can help, but we haven’t had any problems with cleaning. A good toy cleaner, or simply soap and water and left to dry before putting away should result in a long lasting toy.

Overall thoughts

If you are looking for your first fantasy or animal dildo, the Basilisk Volcanic Rock is a great option. It is small enough and can start your journey, but also is varied enough for a variety of play, oral, vaginal and anal. The texture is suitable for a variety of sensations.

Would I purchase another, I sure would, and definitely open to trying other animal dildos from the Laphwing Sex Toys store.

Masturbation thoughts

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What do you think about when you masturbate?

Cartoon image of a man lying on his back. He is wearing a butt plug with a blue jewel. There is a cock ring around his cock and balls. He has his cock in one hand, and is dripping lubricant onto his exposed cock head with his other hand.
Cocktails and cock-stroking by Girl on the Net

This is not a question that comes to mind often. Most of the time the thoughts passing through my mind during masturbation are whatever turns me on in that moment. I have not noticed a trend of thoughts where one of them sticks out more than any others.

Most recently, my thoughts have been drawn to transwomen. The idea of sucking on their girl cock/clit really gets my thoughts flowing, and often leads me to stroking my cock until it is hard and ready to ejaculate my warm, sticky cum.

Previously I have been drawn towards women who have undergone significant weight loss and have excess skin with texture, particularly around their waist and fupa. Not really sure where those thoughts originated.

Other times it is when I am feeling submissive. Times when I want a woman to take charge of my orgasms and control them, even controlling my boy pussy. Have her peg me, even with fantasy dildos.

My mind wanders to any number of things when it comes to masturbation. They are generally drawn to my thoughts of the month and what is currently turning me on, and driving my sexual desires.

I wonder where my masturbation thoughts will lead me next.

Christina and John – Part 2

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After Christina left John stunned from using his mouth and tongue to orgasm, John collapsed on the lounge with his hard, lonely cock.

John stroked his cock a few times, but even with the desire to get off, he wanted to do it with Christina present. His cock lost it’s hardness, and John just sat there reliving the last few minutes over and over in his head.

Christina on the other hand smirked as she left the lounge room and headed to their bedroom. She grabbed her phone on the way and lay down on the bed with her phone.

Christina lowered her hand to her wet cunt. She explored every part of her wet cunt with her fingers, occasionally brushing over her clit. After the orgasm from John, her senses were heightened to every touch on her skin.

She took her phone and opened the camera app. She took some photos of different parts of her body, from her face to her toes. She took her time taking photos of her cunt, from it’s natural appearance, to it stuffed with as many fingers as possible.

Christina selected a few of the photos, and sent them to John. After sending them, she pulled out some toys from the bedside drawers and lay them out on the bed.

Christina lay back, grabbing one of the vibrators. She placed it on her wet cunt and turned it on. She started working the vibrator over her cunt, taking her time when the vibrator was near her clit. Moans escaped her lips and an orgasm started building deep inside her.

Still sitting on the lounge, John looked at his phone and saw the pictures from Christina. His cock slowly hardened and he started stroking himself.

This weekend was certainly different, Christina rarely sent him naked pics of herself. John stood up, with his cock in hand, and headed to their bedroom.

Christina continued moaning as she played with her toy. She was hoping John would come in and take charge and fuck her like she desperately wanted. Her moans turned into groaning John’s name.

John could hear Christina’s moans increasing in volume & intensity as he moved closer to their bedroom. His cock tightened as he heard her moans.

John continued to the bedroom, pushed the door open and peeked inside. He saw the toys on the bed, but no sign of Christina. Her moans were coming from the ensuite.

John positioned himself on the bed, naked of course, his hard cock in one hand, stroking himself. The ensuite door opened and Christina was perched on the vanity. Her legs spread, the vibrator deep in her cunt. She was fucking herself with her vibrator.

They could see each other pleasuring themselves. The room soon filled with moaning and groaning from each of them, edging themselves, keeping themselves on the edge of an orgasm.

The moans continued, soon John couldn’t take it any longer. He touched the head of his cock causing an eruption of cum from his cock. He lost sense of control with each shot of cum. His sticky cum all over his belly and chest.

John just lay there, warm cum all over his body, Christina still fucking her cunt. She saw the cum erupting from John’s cock. She removed the vibrator and jumped onto the bed. Christina wanted John’s cum. She wanted to taste it. She kissed his body, licking up the sticky cum, savouring the taste on her tongue.

Christina licked all the cum off John’s body. Once she was done, she took John’s cock in her mouth, sucking the last few drops of cum from his now flaccid cock.

Christina lay down next to John, pushing close to his body. Her mind wandered to the recent events. She had been hoping the pics would get John hard and ready for her to ride his cock & fill her cunt with his cum, but what she got was much hotter. She enjoyed watching John make himself cum. Tasting his cum from his body, listening to his moans as he shot his load of cum all over himself.

John and Christina just lay there in each other’s presence, satisfied with their orgasms and how they unfolded this morning. The start to their weekend couldn’t get any better.

Christina & John – Part 1
Christina & John – Part 3

Horn levels

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The body and mind is a weird beast.

Unfortunately I managed to catch COVID from Missus Sub and/or Mr 4 on day 7 of their isolation period. So I’m now in isolation myself, but I have this strong urge to be sexual.

The mind is strange. For the last couple of weeks, the desire to be sexual, with Missus Sub or even just some self loving, have been low on the life agenda. But now that I can’t be intimate with anyone, the horniness has come roaring back.

Why that is the case, I do not know. However I suspect it is related to placing restrictions on myself. The freedom to be intimate with someone has been taken away because of the need to isolate.

I suspect it is because I do not have the choice to do as I please, that my body and mind want to do all the things I cannot do.

So what will I do about these new found horn levels? Well that is dependent on how my body feels.

The body is lacking in energy at the moment, but I find myself continually touching myself and my piercing. I want to stroke myself into orgasmic bliss. I have a desire to feast on the gorgeous pussy of Missus Sub. However I know that my body will limit my ability to go the distance of finishing the experience properly.

So for the next week or so, we shall see whether the horn levels remain, and whether I have the energy to do something about them.

Masturbation – Question 24

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Today’s post is brought to you from Brigit Delaney‘s Dirty Questions.

How often do you masturbate and what works best for you?

Masturbation is an interesting topic to write about. I haven’t written about it here on the blog, and I d on’ recall writing about it on previous blogs I have attempted to maintain.

Masturbation isn’t something that I do on a regular basis. I think I would be lucky if I masturbated once per week. Occasionally the mood might call for two or three times throughout the week, but they are very rare occasions, just like the blue moons (maybe the blue moon is my blue balls needing some additional release).

Masturbation is not high on my list of bodily needs. Even sex does not come in high on my needs. I have a low testosterone and libido, and certainly does not match up to the average male.

Most of the time, when I am in the mood for a quick masturbation session, I usually rub out an orgasm in the shower when I get a few minutes of solitude. My quick session involves a finger to the anus to stimulate the erection, before releasing a much reduced cum load due to my vasectomy. That generally satisfies me most weeks if the need arises.

On rare occasions when I feel the need for something more, then I go down the path of some pain mixed with pleasure. My current go to for pain stimulation is my recent purchase of suction cups. These suction cups make quick work of getting the blood flowing in just the right places. Once the pain has been experienced, and the nipples pulled tight, a quick rub and tug gets the job done.

On the exceptionally rare cases, I do like to take my time with the suction cups, making sure I spend some quality time at full attention. These are the times when masturbation is about teasing my cock, keeping me on the edge of an orgasm (or two), before making a warm sticky mess of cum.