Musings of a Switch

Unfiltered thoughts from a bisexual switch

William

Prostate play

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Prostate play, or prostate massage, is the act of massaging or stimulating the prostate gland for sexual stimulation. It was previously used as medical therapy, but this is no longer the case.

In my opinion, there is two forms for prostate play, massage & milking.

My experience

My experience with prostate play is limited. I have only engaged in light prostate massage with toys and fingers. I find that ongoing massage leading to milking leads to unbearable sensations that become uncomfortable.

However, the times I engaged in prostate play were some of the most enjoyable sexual experiences I have been involved in. My prostate has been stimulated in a number of ways including both fingers and toys.

My favourite method for prostate play is during the submissive moments that are experienced while being pegged.

Intimacy

I find that exposing one self for prostate play requires a high level of intimacy. I do not feel comfortable opening myself up for prostate play on a first date. I feel that it needs a level of trust that I cannot give to anyone I meet for the first time.

I have only felt comfortable to open up for prostate play with two people, Missus Sub and a previous poly partner involving pegging. Both ladies have stimulated my prostate using toys and the intimate act of pegging.

Recent experience

Unfortunately there has not been much experience lately. I have not been on the receiving end of prostate stimulation for quite some time. It is something I would like to bring back, but family life makes this somewhat difficult. I suspect it will make a renaissance once the children are older.

Future desire

Writing about prostate play is bringing back memories of play times of the past, the emotional intimacy required to submit to someone and expose yourself for prostate play. While I write this, my mind wanders into engaging in some solo prostate play if I cannot get some private time with Missus Sub.

The idea of a leaking cock because there is pressure on my prostate from a butt plug or dildo certainly stirs something deep inside my mind and body.

Hopefully there will be some prostate play in my near future, but if there isn’t there will always be the reminder of fictional stories about prostate play.

Horn levels

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The body and mind is a weird beast.

Unfortunately I managed to catch COVID from Missus Sub and/or Mr 4 on day 7 of their isolation period. So I’m now in isolation myself, but I have this strong urge to be sexual.

The mind is strange. For the last couple of weeks, the desire to be sexual, with Missus Sub or even just some self loving, have been low on the life agenda. But now that I can’t be intimate with anyone, the horniness has come roaring back.

Why that is the case, I do not know. However I suspect it is related to placing restrictions on myself. The freedom to be intimate with someone has been taken away because of the need to isolate.

I suspect it is because I do not have the choice to do as I please, that my body and mind want to do all the things I cannot do.

So what will I do about these new found horn levels? Well that is dependent on how my body feels.

The body is lacking in energy at the moment, but I find myself continually touching myself and my piercing. I want to stroke myself into orgasmic bliss. I have a desire to feast on the gorgeous pussy of Missus Sub. However I know that my body will limit my ability to go the distance of finishing the experience properly.

So for the next week or so, we shall see whether the horn levels remain, and whether I have the energy to do something about them.

Elust #152

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Togetherness

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1. Do you prefer:

  • Parties
  • Intimate get-togethers
  • Playdates
  • None of the above; they’re all overrated

While I can deal with crowds, the introvert in me much prefers a smaller event, so a small intimate get-together or a playdate is my preference. I’d rather have a conversation in smaller groups rather than being all overwhelmed.

2. What is your preferred bedtime?

  • What’s a bedtime?
  • Between 8:00 p.m. and 10:00 p.m.
  • Early to bed early to rise
  • Late night party animal and/or insomniac

I don’t really think I fit into any of those categories. I do prefer a later bedtime than 10pm, but then I’m not a party animal or insomniac. I just prefer the quiet of the evening, after the kids are asleep I can do as as I please, watch what I want, have adult time uninterrupted.

3. Do you and your significant other go to bed at the same time?

At the moment, no. One the kids insists on my Missus Sub going to bed much earlier than I. Not really sure, but while it is nice to be awake alone at night, it would be nice to spend time with Missus Sub at the same time.

4. Do you compliment your significant other? How often? Do they return the return the gesture?

Compliments are not one of my giving love languages. I do my best where I can though.

5. Do you and your significant other share:

  • More hobbies together than not
  • Less hobbies in common compared to all your hobbies
  • All hobbies– we like and do the same things
  • Nothing at all. We enjoy completely different hobbies.

We have one or two hobbies in common, but otherwise our hobbies generally don’t cross paths, except when Missus Sub craft supplies cross into my garage territory.

Bonus: Do you go walking on a regular basis with your significant other? Research says doing this activity together brings you closer.

It really would be nice to do things like this together, but the children aren’t interested in walking and they would complain, but we’d have to end up at some park with the playground, and unfortunately the kids won’t entertain themselves so we could observe from a distance walking in circles.