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Breasts

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While I am an owner of male breasts, I find myself a great lover of breasts.

I’m not sure what it is about breasts, but I find myself drawn towards them. Many a kink that I have interest in can be attributed to them. From Adult Nursing Relationships, to breast bondage, stretch marks, and just fondling and admiring their form.

Whether the breasts are fully exposed, covered by hands, or in a bra, when photos of them are shared, via ethical porn or shared by the breast owners, I just love adoring them, and they stir something deep in my loin.

So what about breasts stir my arousal? I don’t really know, because no matter their shape, size, the way they sit on their owners body, I love watching them, especially if they have a small bounce or jiggle to them 🙈

Is there a perfect breast? I don’t believe there is a perfect breast, but I do have some favourites. Unfortunately I can’t share them, but one of them is below.

One of my favourite breasts

Exposed breast of Mrs Jones with a lush green shrub background
The lovely Mrs Jones – Source

Fellow blogger and inspiration, Mrs Jones from Corrupting Mrs Jones (and Twitter), started a hashtag from her sailing trip in 2021 called #travellingboob. I have been a long term fan, and look forward to her travelling pics and stories on her blog. I even go back and look through them every few weeks. I really can’t get enough of breasts, and hers are highly ranked, Missus Sub will always be my number one pair of breasts.

Naked – Question 15

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How do you feel about being naked?

Being naked is the most uncomfortable position I can find myself in. I’ve previously written about self voyeurism as part of Kink of the Week, and I shared my thoughts about nudity in front of a mirror there.

I’m personally repulsed by my body as it is, especially when naked. I’m not sure that I will ever be comfortable with my naked body. Even with the lights off, I struggle because of a number of factors.

These are the things that contribute to my lack of confidence about nudity:

  • my round body shape;
  • lack of endowment; and
  • a massive lack of self confidence.

I’m not sure it is something that I will ever be able to overcome. I know that many people have overcome their own demons from their past, but I cannot mentally see me accepting my body as it is, or even a different version of my body.

There are little things that I do like:

Unfortunately these little things that I do like don’t over power the negatives about my nakedness. I wish they did, but they don’t.

Overall, I am not a fan of being naked.

Elust #150

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Image courtesy of Mistress Ivy .
Image courtesy of Mistress Ivy.

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Featured Post by the Winner of Elust Contest for May, The Barefoot Sub.

Mischief Managed

Erotic Fiction

My First Trans Cock
Beware The Boogie Man
Moon Feather: Part 40: The Unwrapping of Gifts
Roadside Assistance
The Caning

Sex Work

Voyeur Duo with Kitty Sinclair
Alien Fetish Role-Play

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Sohimi Butterfly Panty Vibe
Forced to Squirt With The Bombex Butterfly Vibe!
Ursula tentacle dildo & Mr. Moonlight dual-density dildo from Laphwing
Colour Reveal: We-Vibe Nova 2 In Midnight Blue!
Looking Back: Galaxy G Review

Erotic Non Fiction

He Cooked Me An Amazing Meal, Then Dined On My Pussy

Interviews

Interview With Oz Bigdownunder: A Male Escort And Pro Dom

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Big Resources Dump For the Dating Kinky Class I am Teaching Tonight
How to begin with Domestic Discipline within a healthy BDSM relationship

Books and Movies

My Mistress (2014): The Celluloid Dungeon
Crashpad Episode 341: Amy Payme And Kay Coole

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Put Your Mouth on It

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Question 24 – Masturbation

Masturbation – Question 24

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Today’s post is brought to you from Brigit Delaney‘s Dirty Questions.

How often do you masturbate and what works best for you?

Masturbation is an interesting topic to write about. I haven’t written about it here on the blog, and I d on’ recall writing about it on previous blogs I have attempted to maintain.

Masturbation isn’t something that I do on a regular basis. I think I would be lucky if I masturbated once per week. Occasionally the mood might call for two or three times throughout the week, but they are very rare occasions, just like the blue moons (maybe the blue moon is my blue balls needing some additional release).

Masturbation is not high on my list of bodily needs. Even sex does not come in high on my needs. I have a low testosterone and libido, and certainly does not match up to the average male.

Most of the time, when I am in the mood for a quick masturbation session, I usually rub out an orgasm in the shower when I get a few minutes of solitude. My quick session involves a finger to the anus to stimulate the erection, before releasing a much reduced cum load due to my vasectomy. That generally satisfies me most weeks if the need arises.

On rare occasions when I feel the need for something more, then I go down the path of some pain mixed with pleasure. My current go to for pain stimulation is my recent purchase of suction cups. These suction cups make quick work of getting the blood flowing in just the right places. Once the pain has been experienced, and the nipples pulled tight, a quick rub and tug gets the job done.

On the exceptionally rare cases, I do like to take my time with the suction cups, making sure I spend some quality time at full attention. These are the times when masturbation is about teasing my cock, keeping me on the edge of an orgasm (or two), before making a warm sticky mess of cum.

Christina and John

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Christina and John sat on the lounge watching the morning news at the start of a warm summer long weekend. They had nothing planned apart from a coffee in hand & some toast on the table.

An interesting news story came up about kinks in the bedroom. they looked at each other and a smirk rolled across Christina’s face. John looked slightly puzzled but smiled back at his gorgeous wife.

They continued watching the news as they finished their toast & coffee.

Once they were finished, Christina stood up, lifted her short skirt & flashed her pantyless arse at John. She collected the cups and plate before whisking them away to the kitchen. John sat there stunned but happy as Christina’s flash stirred something inside he hadn’t felt in a while.

Christina came back from the kitchen and sat down again, although closer to John this time. She grabbed his hand & guided his fingers to her wet cunt. She guided his fingers up and down her pussy lips as her breathing became slightly more laboured.

The sex between Christina and John had been fairly mundane recently, and he was not expecting this at this time of day. He was enjoying the moment and waited to see where Christina’s mind would go and what she wanted from him.

Christina leaned towards John & moaned in his ear. She said quietly “Eat me, now!”

John immediately obeyed. He pushed the coffee table away from the lounge, he kneeled between Christina’s legs, pulled her forward & dove right into her cunt.

John lapped at her cunt. He had been wanting this for a while but he was also afraid to ask her because of their recent mundane sex lives. The way she whispered in his ear stirred something he had never felt before.

John made short work of bringing Christina to the verge of an orgasm. His tongue knew how to tease her cunt getting her juices flowing.

Christina writhed on the lounge, pushing John’s face hard against her as his tongue worked against her growing clit. She had missed John’s tongue for the last few months, now she wondered why everyday hadn’t been like this.

After what seemed like an eternity of writhing on the lounge, Christina finally came from John’s tongue & lips feasting at her cunt. She pushed him away, panting, stood up and left John just sitting there, his face covered in her juices.

John sat there stunned. His wife had just used him to get herself off, but did nothing about his hard cock like she normally did. He was disappointed but knew something was different about this weekend.

Christina & John – Part 2